We are the leaders of
tomorrow.
I just found out that the tomorrow is now!
One of the psychological
defense mechanisms I hate is ‘Projection’. We have many reasons for failure,
blaming it on him or her. You are never a failure until you begin to blame somebody
else.
We may
attempt to shift the blame to others, but there is no escaping to the fact that
it is the biggest lie to believe that you are not responsible for your own
actions.
The best years of your life are the
ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You don’t blame them on
your mother, the economy or the president. You realize that you control your
own destiny
—Albert Ellis—
We build
great monuments of emptiness when we think that our success lies in sources
other than us. When you accept personal responsibility for your life and your
success, the whole world looks different, your world becomes different. You see
only two beings, yourself and God. And your capability and ability is widened
to set your imagination free. You begin to think outside the square, to be
creative, inventive, resourceful, and to think beyond the obvious.
When you know
it’s up to you and no one else, you prepare better, study more, learn more, and
have greater resolve. God-given abilities and talents surface at this stance,
you learn to use more of them and at that show more self-reliance.
The success
hints provided in this book becomes productive if you accept that whether you
succeed or fail, it’s your decision and responsibility.
Mistakes have
hidden powers to help us, but they fail in their mission of helping us because
of us. We give up the power to change and improve by crediting the blame on
others. When you make a mistake and make an excuse for it, you have made two
mistakes.
Take
responsibility of your life. Too many people expect little, ask for little and as
well receive little. They show responsibility to little dreams and they don’t
go farther than those dreams.
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